Feng Shui in Your Bedroom

Feng Shui in Your Bedroom
Rest & rejuvenate in your own bedroom!

Saturday, May 5, 2012

Feng Shui in Your Bedroom

The foundation of Feng Shui is the pursuit of the most advantageous and harmonious place to live and work. We spend approximately a third of our lives sleeping, but the bedroom is often the last room in the house to receive any attention. When it does obtain consideration, often it’s to buy a new mattress. While there’s absolutely nothing wrong with wanting a comfortable mattress on which to sleep, I’d like to share some other contemplations for your consideration.

A BORING BEDROOM:

Color Schemes:

The bedroom is a Yin room, where you want to relax, become intimate, and regenerate. (Yang rooms could be considered to be any place where you entertain company, or gather as a family.) Research shows that the most relaxing colors are blues and greens- perhaps because they echo the colors of water, the sky, plants and trees in nature.

Our beloved Professor Grandmaster Lin Yun, former leader of the BTB Sect of Feng Shui would have agreed that these colors work well in a bedroom, helping one to relax.

What if blue and green just don’t work for your tastes? You could lay the Ba-gua on your home and figure out the best color(s) according to it, or you could use colors that help you to feel relaxed. I’d just suggest that you avoid too many dark colors or intense hues in the warm family such as red, bright yellow, or orange.

Selecting a pastel, a version of white (like stark to beige), or a soft neutral like grey would also work.

Cures:
The good news about the modern (or BTB) Feng Shui that I practice is that there’s a solution for almost every problem, which we call cures. Some cures are easily explainable, and follow science, medicine and good design principles. Other cures, however are illogical, irrational, mystical and/or transcendental. It’s the latter that often makes the bigger difference in the Ch’i or energy creating an uplifting environment within a home.

Bed Placement:
Because the bed is the largest piece of furniture in a bedroom, it’s going to be the focal point. After you’ve dressed it in fabrics that are wonderful to the touch as well as visually pleasing, then think about its placement. To create the best Feng Shui, put it in a position so that you can see the main door to the room when you’re laying down without aligning the bed with that entrance. (The one is the picture above is floating in the middle of the room- not a great placement.) Sometimes this is difficult or impossible due to windows and doors to closets and entrances. If it is, call me and we’ll set up an appointment for a consultation to determine the best option for your situation.

Do You Need a Headboard?

In short, yes, and it can be made of anything (ideally) except metal. Although a headboard attached to a bedroom wall rather than the bed is perhaps better than none, you really want your headboard to be attached to your bedframe, supporting the mattress and box springs. Place the headboard against a wall (or in the corner if you have enough space in your bedroom.) Think of it as a foundation for a quality night’s rest.

Bedside tables:
Nightstands do not have to match, as is sometimes purported in books on Feng Shui. Just like you and your partner are different, you can have two different tables to meet each of your needs. Think of it as asymmetric balance, or even Yin and Yang: you want a lamp to read, and table to place your book; your partner may want several drawers to neatly store night time needs. That’s just fine.

Master Bathrooms:
According to Feng Shui, it’s best if your bedroom and bathroom are not part> of a master suite (i.e. that they’re separated only by a door.) Worse yet, however if when there is no door separating the two rooms.
If you're thinking, "let's get real, Shelley. I need a bathroom close to where I sleep," then keep in mind there are cures for this situation.
If you have this situation in your home, give me a call and we’ll set up an appointment for a consultation to determine the best option for your situation.

Beam Me Up, Scotty!
A flat ceiling, 8' tall or higher is the best one, according to Feng Shui. If you have beams (like in the picture above), a coved ceiling or other architecturally detailed ceiling, it may cause problems. Again, contact me for a consultation and we'll figure out the best solution to the problem.

Your Thoughts:
I’d love to hear your thoughts and questions regarding this ancient and amazing philosophy. Clients in the greater Puget Sound area have experienced the benefit of Feng Shui through a consultation. Maybe it’s time you are shown you how to alter your surroundings to create a more uplifting environment where you are able to breathe and be at your best. Think about it and give me a call when you're ready. Credits: Thanks to HGTV.com and HouseBeautiful.com for pictures used in this entry.

Monday, April 2, 2012

The Power of Accessories- Part Deux


I’ve gotten some wonderful feedback via email about my last entry, so first of all, thanks friends, clients, and new readers! Since I last wrote we’ve had a lot more wind, rain and cold weather: March came in like a lion, and out like... an angry dragon! None the less, the promise of Spring still runs in the forefront of my mind. We’ve had another two days of sunshine in Seattle, and I'm inspired by how hardy our plant life is in the Northwest.
I’m moving forward to include three more shops: one on Queen Anne Hill (my burb) and two in neighboring Ballard.

Three Birds, of 2107 Queen Anne Ave. N. in Seattle, 98109. www.ThreeBirdsHome.com
















This shop that has yet to celebrate its first birthday, but shop owner, Robin Johnson has a great eye for unique and wonderful pieces.
Whether it’s larger pieces of furniture and accents, or accessories such as unusual glasswear, throw pillows, or edgy jewelry, somebody’s bound to ask, “Where’d you get that?”






















Lucca Great Finds 5332 Ballard Ave NW (between Vernon Pl & N 22nd Ave) in Seattle, WA 98107 http://www.luccagreatfinds.com/l/WELCOME.html
The shop owner Francine Katz was busily organizing new merchandise into artful vignettes when I last stopped in, but let me snap a few quick photos of some of her merchandise-so welcoming and helpful.


Her glassware is exquisite.
















Lucca has an amazing selection of beautiful cards and stationery suitable for framing.



Check out those safari trophy heads all made from paper. What a fun way to bring a macho feel to a den or man cave, or even to a Safari-themed child’s bedroom! There are old time maps suitable for framing of Paris and other exotic locales.


Camelion Design 5330 Ballard Ave. N.W. in Seattle, 98107 is right next door to Lucca. http://www.cameliondesign.com/


More amazing glass in this little gem of a shop!
















The art work displayed throughout the store is very special. Lamps and accessories such as those in the picture below, along with fabulous contemporary furniture make for great inspiration.
So, as I said in my previous posting, if you’re feeling ready to invest in a full home or single room redesign, give me a call. We’ll work together to convert your ordinary space into an extraordinary place. If not, consider the power of upgrading your accessories to refresh your home and provide new focal points for your interiors. I’ve heard from a few who’ve shared shops that inspire- I can’t wait to check them out! Continue to let me know if you have a special & amazing store in the Puget Sound that you like to peruse for inspiration, ideas, and accessories. I’d love to hear from you.

Friday, March 23, 2012

The Power of Accessories- Part One

Some friends as well as clients have asked where I find my “just perfect” accessories for home décor, the jewelry of the home. You like to change things in your home from time to time just like me, whether it’s the arrangement of furniture, moving art into a spot where I’ll rediscover its beauty, or accessorizing. I’ve decided to feature three amazing decor shops to begin, and add more and more to my blogosphere.


I took a walk today and saw some signs of spring! What a joy it was to see not only the crocuses but tulips and daffodils bursting into bloom. Winter started so mild here in the Puget Sound, but has provided lots of snow and c-c-cold nights. I’m thrilled to have hints that say warmer days are ahead. I’m putting away my crèmes and browns for brighter whites and infusing some spring hues into my home to remind me that we’re moving into hours on the deck and walking in sunshine again!

Where to Begin:
Start by studying your current color scheme and design style. Look for pieces that say “winter” like your throw blankets, darker toned decorative pillows, and plethora of candles and consider putting them away for next fall.
Next, take a look at your focal points in each room: the mantel of your fireplace, the dining room table or the wall behind it as you enter the room, and the wall above your headboard to start. Consider these as your highest priority, and find new accessories for them first. For new art, take measurements so that you know the right size to purchase to fit the space. Then accent with other details throughout the room. Take a list and color swatches with you, after you’ve gotten inspiration from décor magazines or even catalogs. Keep in mind that tiny accessories can look like clutter if you bring your entire collection of tiny bunnies to a side table.
I’m bringing you three stores in Bellevue today that are within easy walking distance of one another, next time one from Queen Anne Hill (my burb!) and two from Ballard.

Veritables


There are two stores: 10220 Main Street in Bellevue, which is an accessories treasure trove, and 2806 East Madison in Seattle, that caters more to those looking for gifts for a special friend.

For more than thirteen years, Veritables owner and designer Marie Harris has worked with color, element and light to bring warmth and balance to the home. Both stores are filled with beautiful items, and she resources products from around the world.



















Terra Bella 10251 Main Street in Bellevue


This small shop is a fabulous spot to find interesting and beautiful decorations. The owner, Nancy Meade is warm and welcoming, and happy to assist in finding just the right fit for your needs. One of my favorites includes Sid Dickens wonderful tile creations.

Italian linens in every color grace this boutique- scrumptious!

Fabulous tableware could enhance any color scheme, including this bright and vivacious one.


Patina 10240 Main Street in Bellevue
www.patinacollections.com/

Patina Collections is a favorite haunt of interior designers and home enthusiasts alike. The store artfully mixes old and new furniture, antiques, art and accessories.

These ladies have a great eye for current consignment items that you will want to buy! Plus, they're friendly, and I love popping in to see what's new.


If you’re feeling ready to invest in a full home or single room redesign, give me a call. We’ll work together to convert your ordinary space into an extraordinary place. If not, consider the power of upgrading your accessories to refresh your home and provide new focal points for your interiors. Let me know if you have a special & amazing store in the Puget Sound that you like to peruse for inspiration, ideas, and accessories. I’d love to hear from you.

Thursday, January 26, 2012

Remodeling Your Small Kitchen

If you have a small kitchen, you may feel a little jealous when you look at television programs’ and home décor magazines’ expansive space devoted to food storage, preparation, and entertaining. It’s easy to be envious of homeowners who have large kitchens. You need to recognize that you have some advantages that they do not.

What is a Small Kitchen?
Definitions vary according to the architect, designer, and/or homeowner across the country. Generally, however a classic 10' x 10' kitchen (100 square feet or less) is considered the benchmark of small kitchen sizing.
Dimensions matter, too. A very narrow kitchen might still be thought a small kitchen. For example, a kitchen space that is 8 feet by 15 feet, or 120 sq. ft. would still, in my book, be considered a small kitchen.

What Are the Benefits of a Small Kitchen?
On the basis of square footage, kitchens are particularly costly to remodel. Compared to a living room, great room, or bedroom, you're dealing with no water, fewer electrical needs, and inexpensive materials such as drywall, trim, etc. The kitchen has many expensive services such as plumbing for sinks, dishwashers, and refrigerators and extra electrical needs for extra lighting, dishwashers, garbage disposals, ovens and ranges, ventilation, and more. Materials beyond appliances tend to be expensive, too. Consider the cost of granite, Corian, marble, custom or stock cabinets, stainless steel, tile, flooring, etc. Good news: less square footage means less cost.

Are There Ways to Scale Down Those Big Kitchen Ideas?
The National Kitchen and Bath Association (NKBA) recommends mixing natural and ambient lighting, using space saving appliances, creating more unique storage solutions, and adding personalized touches to design an efficient and more spacious-looking kitchen.
The use of some upper cabinets with glass doors fools the viewer into seeing the back of the cabinet, thereby creating another foot or so of space. You can create an illusion of space with under, in-cabinet or above-cabinet lighting. Consider replacing old windows and doors with larger, more beautiful new ones that will let in more light. With the proper lighting, the kitchen can be made to appear larger and more pleasing.

Think about your needs in your current kitchen. While you might really want a side-by-side refrigerator, recognize they take up lots of width in your small kitchen. Appliance manufacturers have come up with more compact space-saving appliances make small kitchen design easier, like refrigerators that are 24 inches deep rather than 30, as well as appliances like microwaves that can be hung underneath cabinets. Double sinks and farmhouse sinks, while appealing, also take up precious counter space. Is storage your first priority? Then you may need to maximize kitchen cabinets and get smaller appliances. Can you commandeer some space near the kitchen that can be used for items used infrequently? Do you really want a peninsula where you can eat? Then you may need to sacrifice counter space for food preparation to get it. Remember: It's your kitchen and you need to make these choices.

What are Some Ways to Make a Kitchen Look Larger?

Eliminate Clutter
Countertops crowded with dishes, food, and cookware (as well as cabinets topped by collectibles) swamp a small kitchen and cramp your work space. To enlarge the room visually, clear off the counters, the windowsill, and the cabinet tops, and stash as much as you can behind closed doors. To take it a bit farther, select simple European-style cabinetry with sleek flat-panel doors and drawers that save space consumed by traditional cabinetry.

Hide Your Small Appliances
Small kitchens often have storage challenges. Countertops can then become storage areas, but eradicating clutter will help any space feel larger. Reclaim lost storage space with an appliance garage. The cabinet conceals your coffeemaker, toaster, mixer, and such, but keeps them easy to access.

You can also stow bulky appliances like a mixer on an accessible pop-up shelf. A spring-loaded shelf readily lifts this stand mixer to counter height. Plus, the mixer can be used right on its shelf, thanks to an outlet inside the cabinet. (Believe it or not, my dad -a cabinet maker- did this for my aunt in the mid-sixties. Amazing!)

Eliminate Lost Storage Space
The backs of deep cabinets are spaces we rarely use. Installing lazy susans (which are far from new!) and roll-out shelves will take full advantage of all of your kitchen’s space.

Divide & Conquer
Transfer pots and pans from a cavernous lower cabinet to a deep drawer near your cooktop. (Dividers provide a spot for each pan and its lid, although this is an added expense.) Take into consideration the height of your largest pot plus its lid (or invert the lid) to ensure that the drawer is deep enough to accommodate it.

Pullout Mini-Pantry
Keep ingredients and cooking staples close to cooktops and ovens with handy pullout units. A narrow but deep gap could have been lost space, but the pullouts make the most of the awkward space and bring the cabinet contents into full view.

Spice Storage
Spices can also be organized with easily visible labels using slanted drawer inserts. Further reorganize their storage by placing spices into identical-sized containers.

You naturally notice that the amazing kitchens featured in design magazines are large, so you may assume that your small kitchen is going to be inadequate, even with a remodel. News flash: MOST kitchens are small. Good kitchen designs are going to give you more effective lighting, space-saving (and energy efficient) appliances, effective and unique storage solutions, and add the personalized touches to provide a more spacious-looking kitchen.

Wondering about costs? Check out my entry 2 blogs ago to get a ball-park figure. (When your head stops spinning from the money these cost, re-read my 3rd paragraph above as to why.) Please feel free to send me questions or pictures of your effective solutions. Need help? Give me a call! I’d love to hear from you!

Monday, January 16, 2012

Chinese New Year Celebration Ideas!

Chinese New Year is the most important and longest celebration of all the Chinese holidays. On Jan. 23, 2012, the Chinese year 4710 begins. We are about to enter the Year of the Water Dragon! Chinese New Year is celebrated in Mainland China, Hong Kong, Indonesia, Macau, Malaysia, Philippines, Singapore, Taiwan, Thailand, Korea, Bhutan and also in Chinatowns elsewhere.


In China, the New Year is a time of family get-togethers. Family members meet at one another's homes for visits and meals; most notably a feast on New Year's Eve’. Many early Chinese immigrants in the U.S. arrived without their families, and found a sense of community with other settlers from China instead. Today, many Chinese-American neighborhood associations host banquets and other New Year events. The Chinese New Year tradition is to reconcile, forget all grudges and sincerely wish peace and happiness for everyone.

I am not Chinese, but having studied Feng Shui, I provide a celebration each year for family and friends. It’s really lots of fun, and I invite you to do the same.
Chinese New Year Celebration ideas:
1. Invite family and friends for a celebratory dinner anytime between Sun., Jan. 22 to Feb. 6.
2. Encourage every guest to dress in brightly colored attire.
3. Clean your home thoroughly prior to your party, making sure to make your windows & mirrors spotless!
4. Hang paper lanterns throughout your home.
5. Purchase some fresh flowers to bring new Ch’i (energy) into your home.
6. Surround yourself with fruit for a fruitful new year.
7. Place money in red envelopes if you have children and give them these envelopes for a lucky new year.

8. Serve plenty of good food, including many different dishes. If I'm pressed for time, I sometimes have Chinese take-out for this meal! Have enough for leftovers, as this will bring good luck for the whole year.
9. Play music and games.

The Chinese Calendar:
The months of the Chinese calendar are calculated by the lunar calendar, with each month beginning on the darkest day. New Year festivities traditionally start on New Year’s Eve’ or Lunar New Year and continue until the moon is brightest on the fifteenth day, the Lantern Festival.

The Origin of the Chinese Zodiac
In ancient times, Buddha asked all the animals to meet him on Chinese New Year. Twelve came, and Buddha named a year after each one. He announced that the people born in each animal's year would have some of that animal's personality. Those born in Dragon years are innovative, brave, and passionate. Al Pacino, Diana Krall, Gregory Peck, Joan of Arc, Liam Neeson, Martin Sheen, Mary Louise Parker, Matt Dillon, Reese Witherspoon, Salvador Dalí, Sandra Bullock, George Washington, and Shirley Temple-Black were all born in a Year of the Dragon.

The Lantern Festival
The lantern festival is held on the fifteenth day of the first lunar month, so this year it occurs on Feb. 6. Some lanterns displayed are amazing works of art, painted with zodiac signs, birds, flowers, animals, and scenes from legend and history. People hang glowing lanterns in temples, and carry lanterns to an evening parade under the light of the full moon.


In many areas the highlight of the lantern festival is the dragon dance. The dragon, which is typically up to 100 ft. long is made of silk, paper, and bamboo and elevated on the arms of many dancers moving in a snake-like line. In the United States, where the New Year is celebrated with a shortened schedule, the dragon dance almost always takes place on a weekend.


If you live in/near Seattle, check out the many activities the weekend after, Sat., January 28:
http://www.cidbia.org/events/lunar-new-year-celebration-2012-year-of-the-dragon I hope to see you all there!

Read more: Chinese New Year: 2012 http://www.infoplease.com/spot/chinesenewyear1.html#ixzz1jf6mn6XP